The Wild and the Woolly

Happiness is not a place

nobody@vox.com(Curlysalamander) — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 17:10:10 -0800

Today at lunch with a friend I heard myself say, "Happiness is not a place that you get to, it's a practice." And I so often fail to hear the wise words that sometimes drop from my lips, I decided that blogging about the practice of happiness mig...

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I'm a Mother-in-Law!

nobody@vox.com(Curlysalamander) — Sun, 15 Nov 2009 11:18:59 -0800

We've just returned from Dabysan and Carrienation's wedding and our follow-up trip to New York City and I could not be a happier new mother-in-law. The wedding itself was perfection, thanks to their meticulous planning and generous attention to t...

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Being (or becoming) Lovable

nobody@vox.com(Curlysalamander) — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 09:08:25 -0800

Back when I was a young thing, still in college, a marginally older friend and I had a conversation about aging. I was reflecting that I didn't want to grow old and unloved, and his response was, "the only way you can ensure that you will be love...

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You Just Never Know

nobody@vox.com(Curlysalamander) — Fri, 23 Oct 2009 10:57:05 -0700

I inherited a tendency from my mother to scan for the worst possible outcomes and prepare accordingly. This risk- averse tendency keeps me flossing and getting check ups, and probably has prevented me from being either very rich or very poor. I'...

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Over the Bounding Main

nobody@vox.com(Curlysalamander) — Tue, 08 Sep 2009 17:26:49 -0700

Mr Salamander and I just returned from a week of sailing around the Gulf Islands on a 40-foot sailing vessel we rented with another couple, Monike and Paul. Although we didn't venture very far, we did discover some wonderful little communities in...

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The Porcupine Dance

nobody@vox.com(Curlysalamander) — Mon, 31 Aug 2009 10:13:58 -0700

I've been thinking a lot lately about how we define our social distance with other people in our lives. That barrel-of- laughs philosopher Schopenhauer described the "hedgehog dilemma." When hedgehogs get cold and lonely they cling to each other...

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Blood Blackberry Pie

nobody@vox.com(Curlysalamander) — Wed, 19 Aug 2009 14:19:20 -0700

Blackberry picking is blood sport. They grow in dense and snaky brambles that have a creepy way of grabbing your clothes and hanging on. They are covered with thorns and bees. They are also a non-native plant here in Canada and much despised ...

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Death With Dignity vs. Futile Care

nobody@vox.com(Curlysalamander) — Tue, 11 Aug 2009 08:09:03 -0700

Even living in Canada, with its quite sensible health care system, is not protecting me from episodes of sputtering rage regarding the insane debate about health reform going on south of the border. The latest flap about "euthanasia" is so horrib...

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Healthcare Part 2: Why Socialized Medicine is a Good Idea

nobody@vox.com(Curlysalamander) — Thu, 23 Jul 2009 10:19:17 -0700

When I used to give talks, I would sometimes lead with the observation that as a healthcare writer and consultant I've learned very little about health and a lot about economics. The best way to understand how the economics of healthcare differ f...

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Healthcare Part 1: The Toxic Legacy of Ronald Reagan

nobody@vox.com(Curlysalamander) — Wed, 22 Jul 2009 14:11:40 -0700

Reading the debate about health care reform in the U.S. makes me really feel my years. I was a health care reporter under both the Carter and Reagan administrations, and after moving to California in 1986, spent the ensuing 20 years as a consulta...

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